Yesterday, we were all set to go do our Christmas shopping for each other. We had decided to just do it together but have been having a hard time finding the time to do it. Well, yesterday was it supposedly. But of course, I woke up and didn’t feel all that well. I persevered through coffee and Calliope’s first nap. I even posted some items on craigslist for sale and straightened my desk so I could see just how much work there is to do! By the time Michael and I were ready to walk out the door, which can take an eternity these days, I just couldn’t do it. I was tired, my head hurt, my throat was on fire and I just couldn’t bear the thought of leaving the comfort of home for a rainy day out with the family shopping. Yes, I passed on shopping to stay home and drink tea lined with whiskey and watch two of the four Resident Evil movies featuring Milla. A true testament to the fact I was not feeling well.
Michael was awesome. He took Calliope with him and they did some shopping of their own, including bringing me some less expensive whiskey to put in my tea! He continued to care for Calliope the rest of the day so that I didn’t get her sick again. It seems we have been passing things back and forth for about a month and a half at this point. Incredulous, and tiring. At the same time, several persons responded to my craigslist ads for the bed and coffee table. Yippee! Money! AND space!
Again, Michael was awesome and we took down our old bed and finally put up the upholstered headboard that I had custom made about 6 months ago and the West Elm bedframe (which was a total bit@h). I’m so happy. It just feels less cluttered than the sleigh bed which had a foot board. The new frame does not. Bliss. Unfortunately, our buyer didn’t show up when he said he would. In fact, he never showed up 🙁 The old bed is in the hallway.
And Michael had to wake up every time Calliope did in the middle of the night because I was zonked out on flu meds and whiskey. And this morning, I feel only slightly better. My mood is certainly better and my head is not as congested, but my throat still feels like a fire truck ran through it and then forgot to put out the fire it came for in the first place. I’ll go see the lovely Greg (doctor) today and get it sorted. Calliope is going to the babysitter, last minute, so as not to catch whatever I have. Michael is dealing with her this morning, feeding, changing, packing her up to be gone for the day. I refuse to touch anything for fear of contamination. Some lovely friends suggested a hazmat suit via facebook. Something tells me that will be hard to find. Though I do live in SF.
Frida will do anything at this point to get attention! Poor
thing…
Thoughts on happiness
The prevailing thought that enters my mind is how happy Calliope is… She is always smiling. Maybe its just me… or just me and Michael, but she seems so happy 90% of the time… And that smile is just awe inspiring goodness.
First Entry
Today, we were sitting in the kitchen and were playing on our computers with Calliope in her mobile saucer device. At some point, we both turned to catch her opening one of the drawers (thankfully, not the one with knives in it) and reaching in… her curiosity is starting to truly blossom and boy are we excited and afraid all at the same time!
I'm sure this will be a constant refrain
So I will just preface this with the following disclamer: I think I will be saying this a lot over the next several years.
So Calliope did the coolest thing this evening when I got home. She had been with Mikey all day, and he was feeding her while sitting on the couch when I came in from work. I came in and stood next to them and said hi to both of them. Calliope stopped sucking on the bottle and just looked at me and smiled. The really crazy thing is that she didn’t go back to the bottle, she just watched me even though the nipple was right there in her mouth. She did that again a few minutes later after I had left the room. She definitely recognized me and it was amazing.
Mikey, Calliope, & I went our of first vacation this week down to Palm Spring (technically Ranco Mirage). We spent a week at one of our time share’s sister resorts, The Westin Mission Hills. Jenn, Eddie and his niece Christina joined us for most of the time there and we had so much fun.
Calliope had her first time in the pool and loved every minute, except the getting out part. I think we need to get her signed up for swimming lessons very early on. She really loved being in the heat and slept so well poolside.
We played a lot of Carcassonne which is one of our favorite games. I think Jenn, Eddie and Christina all got hooked. We even resurrected Canasta after Eddie and Christina left.
We leave tomorrow for a 10 hour drive home (allowing for stops). Calliope did great on the way down and hopefully will be just as much a trooper on the way home.
You should have seen all the stuff we brought (especially me for all the kitchen stuff). We did end up using most of what we brought, except for maybe the pool toys. We leave tomorrow and I’ll be spending the morning packing up the car again.
Our one week checkup
Calliope had her one week check up this morning and is doing great. She gained 5 oz of weight and everything is looking great. We asked about two small bumps on her bumm which turned out to just be some small diaper rash. To which the doctor commented with a smile: “I judge parents by what they notice as diaper rash.” Guess we are doing OK. 🙂
A wonderful present
Mikey gave me a wonderful present this morning; he let me sleep through my 3:30AM baby shift. It felt so good to get 6 hours of sleep. Thank you honey, I love you.
Calliope Lenelle Lasmanis
Calliope Lenelle Lasmanis was born on June 9, 2010 at 1:12AM PDT. She was 7 pounds 1 oz and 19 3/4 inches long. Calliope, Mom, and her three dads are all doing great.